Two ladies whom I loved dearly are very, very upset with me because of my new boyfriend. I knew it was coming, and I knew they would be upset, but I really don’t care anymore.
If they were really my friends, they would care more about my happiness and well-being than their grudge against my boyfriend. I considered these two ladies to be my sisters for many years, and now I can’t even call them friends. All because they can’t let go of their delusions about Jonathan. I love them to bits, and it kills me to know that they can’t just be happy for me. They’ve made up this horrible delusion that Jonathan is a terrible human being and is thoroughly incapable of being in a healthy relationship. The funny thing is, they haven’t actually held a conversation with him in at least a few years. They don’t know him anymore. They choose not to remember how sweet and kind and caring he is. They look past his gentle demeanor and blatant kindness. He is the most gentle, loving, beautiful person I’ve ever met, and it would be ridiculous to be convinced otherwise, especially if you’ve actually talked to the guy.
What I’m saying here is that this whole situation is completely ridiculous. I’m done with these “friends” of mine and their unforgiving bullshit. They don’t have to be happy for me. I’ve got plenty of people around me who will support me, no matter who I date.
//as you were//
- allthingsnerd said: AWWW!! I love you! And I love Jonathan! And I love you and Jonathan! Let me love/huuuuuug youuuuu!!!!
- scribe4love said: Thank you for the wonderful compliments sweetheart; God knows I don’t deserve them (especially without His help), but thank you. I am sorry people suck :(
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- memoryerasingtea said: :( Sucks to hear that. You’re a lovely person, and I’m sure things will work out in the long run. (hug)
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